
Ian and Becky
We're looking to adopt a baby
Thank you so much for taking the time to get to know us. It is a brave and loving act to consider adoption, and we have enormous respect and admiration for this path. Our family is ready to grow, and we’re honored that you might become part of that journey. We welcome an open relationship and will always speak of you with honor and love in our hearts.
It sounds cliché to have met in college, but of course we did – on our first day, during our first class no less! She was the witty girl making him laugh and he was the handsome guy rocking the vintage sweaters who could keep up with her banter. We started out as friends, joining class volunteer projects in the community, and soon fell for each other, working ever since as a team, through thick and thin. After finishing community college in 2007, we moved to Oregon to finish our bachelor’s degrees. We were married in 2011, in an orchard under our favorite tree, surrounded by friends and family.
We had always wanted to grow our family through adoption, though we welcomed our biological son, Benjamin, in 2020. The pregnancy and birth were very difficult, and we decided that pursuing another pregnancy was not in the cards. Now, we feel ready to expand our family and bless Ben with a sibling, knowing this path to parenthood has been on our hearts for a decade and we are finally in a place to see this dream play out. We have adult and child adoptees as friends and in our extended family, strengthening our connections to the adoptive family community.
Financial Support
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
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Navigating a pregnancy alone is never easy. Depending on your situation and location, you may qualify for financial assistance to help cover the cost of basic living expenses, such as food and groceries.
Medical Expenses
Receiving quality medical care during your pregnancy is vital to both your health and the health of your baby. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your pregnancy-related medical expenses will be covered by the adoptive family.
Rent & Utilities
Women who choose to place their baby for adoption may receive financial assistance to help cover the cost of rent and utilities. If you feel that you'll need some help with these costs, it's important to talk to your adoption social worker about it early in the process.
Household Items
In order to have a healthy pregnancy, it's important that you have everything you need to lead a healthy lifestyle. The cost of some household items may be covered during your pregnancy.
Counseling
Placing a baby for adoption is a loving but incredibly challenging decision. Many women experience a range of emotions during this time and find that counseling is very helpful.
Transportation
If you need assistance with transportation, your adoption social worker can help you find the best solution. You may be eligible for help with transportation costs.
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